[ci] Fixes for win jupyter ctests
- [CI] ctest on win now properly reports exit code
- execute notebooks with papermill instead of nbconvert to also get print outputs from the notebook on failure
- some ruff / pyproject fixes
- some relaxed tols for win
- had to disable one notebook on win (see commit message for details)
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Edited by Lars Bilke